I don't recall mentioning wearing women's clothing and hanging out in bars, but being lumberjacks, you're both OK.
But I will mention this. I found this great sparkly olive chenille, paired with olive marabou (Jimmy Choo pumps optional), its great. I got it when I bought a bunch of random stuff off Ebay so I wouldn't know where to find it, although I'm looking as I'm running out, but I'm a fan. I really like the sparckly chenille. Its a beefier thread than the standard, so it might be better suited to a bass fly tied on #6 than a trout fly on a #12, but I really have had great success with the stuff on both blue gills, as well as mangrove snappers and baby tarpon. Good luck.