I'm not sure if any one can answer this question. I'm currently living with hopefully to be soon ex wife and I'm paying all the utility bills and I have the kids 5 days a week. The question is that she wants money on top of that which tends to leave me with no money and I get paid every two weeks. Do I have to give her money? I hate to ask this question, I'm currently trying to find a good divorce lawyer. But at the moment she's pressuring me for money.